I hold Sam?

Sure Will - you can hold Sam for the 7 seconds when you think it is fun and then proceed to ditch him to the side and say "All done Mommy."  One day you will think its cool to have a little brother - I swear :)

I on the other hand hold Sam pretty much every second possible when Will is snoozing the afternoon away.   I will never regret being completely lazy, doing absolutely nothing all afternoon and holding my sweet sweet boy.  I literally have a "selfie" from almost everyday of Sam and I snuggling.  My love bug.